For Greater Glory


Today, we celebrate the feast of St. Christopher Magallanes and Companions, martyrs.

It is a wonderful feast for today. These men are all part of the Cristero Movement in Mexico in the early 20th century. The struggle of these and others was portrayed with dignity in the recent film For Greater Glory.

In my world, it reminds me of what happened after I took my kids to see the movie. My youngest son asked ” would you give your life if something like that happened?” and before I could answer, he stated that he thought he would.

What great fire in such a small package, and great faith so simply stated by a small child.

 

Our Lady of Guadalupe, pray for us

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New Offie Update


There will be a major announcement about the new center on Tuesday May 28, 2013. Look here for the important information

God Bless you!

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Eternal Rest……


In my daily view of the newspaper, I saw that “IVF Pioneer” Robert Edwards had died peacefully in his sleep last night

Robert Edwards RIP

In previous postings, I documented my meeting with this gentleman. At the time, I was very excited, and was not disappointed, but was amazed to find him to be a gentle, grandfatherly type, more comfortable as a country farmer than a fast paced biologist.

However, he is also the prime mover behind an industry which has moved beyond anyone’s imagination. Of course, he stated in 2003 that he saw at least some of what has been spawned, but he was a huge apologist for the modernistic, relativistic world in which we live.

The first american IVF baby works for the Globe.

First IVF Child reflects

She sounds the mantra that I am sure we will hear all over the world in the next few days…” I would not be here but for Dr Edwards.”  And they would be right. And not to sound creepy…but all of the frozen embryos and discarded embyros, and abnormal embryos That have been created  can also claim kindred spirits.

There will be time to reflect on all of these things. But for today, I pray that Eternal Rest be upon him, and let perpetual light shine upon him. May God have mercy on him.

St Gianna, Pray for us

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Shocking development! I'm a heretic!

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Or Jay Boyd is, or both of us, or something something something.  Last week I did a post on Dr. Jay Boyd's new book.  By some means, that post got linked to a Yahoo group for "NFP professionals."  Within a very short time, Jay got word of that post, and the comments it attracted from the NFP professionals.  Jay has made her own response…

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I had given up posting as part of my Lenten Mortification Plan, but had to respond to the give and take here. (this Sunday is Latere Sunday...so I guess it is ok once) Jay Boyd has produced an interesting book, a blog in print,that covers the world of NFP very well. I frequently get into discussions with NFP teachers and couples, and some of those stories are on the blog at other place. Here are the points in fact: NFP is a great way for people to learn about their reproductive system. It is a way for married couples to see the wonder of God's creation. And it is a way for husbands to begin to understand the intricacies in their soulmate and partner. The Catholic Church does not proclaim that one must have 10 kids. But, when you were married, there are a couple of places where kids come into it 1. In the beginning interrogatory, the couple is asked: "Will you accept children lovingly from God, and bring them up according to the law of Christ and his Church?" 2. In the Nuptual Blessing: "Bless them with children and help them to be good parents. May they live to see their children's children." There are some factors to consider. First, though it seems that it is easy to become pregnant, in fact the best chance a couple has in any month is 1 in 5. That is without making any changes. Periodic continence is good for many reasons, not the least of which is allowing the marriage to grow in other ways. But......each act of the loving embrace needs to be open to the possibility of life. Now some may say what about when menopause hits or there is some problem....or try to argue that hysterectomy is illicit....but the Church does understand that the reproductive lifespan is not eternal, but that the unitive part of the marital act is still valid. But I am off point. Truth be told, most NFP writings do not tell stories of using NFP to improve the chances of pregnancy....it touts that NFP is 98-99% effective in preventing pregnancy......just as good as all the artificial means....in fact, better than the pill. Pope Paul VI said it best  

"These acts, by which husband and wife are united in chaste intimacy, and by means of which human life is transmitted, are, as the Council recalled, "noble and worthy,"11 and they do not cease to be lawful if, for causes independent of the will of husband and wife, they are foreseen to be infecund, since they always remain ordained towards expressing and consolidating their union. In fact, as experience bears witness, not every conjugal act is followed by a new life. God has wisely disposed natural laws and rhythms of fecundity which, of themselves, cause a separation in the succession of births. Nonetheless the Church, calling men back to the observance of the norms of the natural law, as interpreted by their constant doctrine, teaches that each and every marriage act (quilibet matrimonii usus) must remain open to the transmission of life"(HV 11)

Saint Gianna, pray for us
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My prayer for the center


Father,
I abandon myself into your hands;
do with me what you will.
Whatever you may do, I thank you:
I am ready for all, I accept all.

Let only your will be done in me,
and in all your creatures -
I wish no more than this, O Lord.

Into your hands I commend my soul:
I offer it to you with all the love of my heart,
for I love you, Lord, and so need to give myself,
to surrender myself into your hands without reserve,
and with boundless confidence,
for you are my Father.

–Charles de Foucauld

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A support group that is really needed!


This group is being started by a tireless, faithful woman and is well worth the time. If you are in the area, consider spending some time meeting and greeting new friends!
Following Hannah –Infertility Support Group for Catholic Women
The Following Hannah Support Group is for Catholic women experiencing difficulty beginning their families due to infertility. It offers a loving, safe place to share and pray together with other Catholic women who are committed to following the Catholic Church’s teachings on reproductive technology. Discussion topics include: Experiencing denial; Coping with sadness; Accepting the cross; Seeking joy; Finding meaning in suffering; Discerning treatment; Considering adoption.
Starting March 2, 2013. 9:00—10:30 am in the St. Paul Center at Ss. Peter and Paul in Naperville (corner of Benton & Brainard Streets). Meets monthly on the 1st Saturday. For more info or to RSVP, contact Mary Beth  at mbrummond@sspeterandpaul.net

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Why we do what we do Part Two


I was struck today, in the shadow of coverage of the March for life, by the readings for today’s Mass

 

The First Reading is taken from the Letter to the Hebrews

Brothers and sisters:
Since the law has only a shadow of the good things to come,
and not the very image of them, it can never make perfect
those who come to worship by the same sacrifices
that they offer continually each year.
Otherwise, would not the sacrifices have ceased to be offered,
since the worshipers, once cleansed, would no longer
have had any consciousness of sins?
But in those sacrifices there is only a yearly remembrance of sins,
for it is impossible that the blood of bulls and goats
take away sins.
For this reason, when he came into the world, he said:

Sacrifice and offering you did not desire,
but a body you prepared for me;
in burnt offerings and sin offerings you took no delight.
Then I said, As is written of me in the scroll,
Behold, I come to do your will, O God.

First he says, Sacrifices and offerings,
burnt offerings and sin offerings,
you neither desired nor delighted in.

These are offered according to the law.
Then he says, Behold, I come to do your will.
He takes away the first to establish the second.
By this “will,” we have been consecrated
through the offering of the Body of Jesus Christ once for all.

 

and the Gospel is From Mark:

The mother of Jesus and his brothers arrived at the house.
Standing outside, they sent word to Jesus and called him.
A crowd seated around him told him,
“Your mother and your brothers and your sisters
are outside asking for you.”
But he said to them in reply,
“Who are my mother and my brothers?”
And looking around at those seated in the circle he said,
“Here are my mother and my brothers.
For whoever does the will of God
is my brother and sister and mother.”

Those who gather annually for the March for Life, in increasing numbers every year live the message of these readings. While it is a annual scheduled gathering, as is the Walk for Life and every other expression of support for life throughout the world, they are all drawn by a drive to follow God’s Will.

But what happens in the days following the march? Some will come home, take their signs and placards and put them away, forgetting about them till next year. Others will continue to fight in various ways, writing blogs and letters, protesting in front of Abortion Clinics, starting or joining pro-life organizations all in ways in which they feel that they can be most useful.

There is a great apostolate that has been developing of the last 40 years, in Crisis Pregnancy Centers. The people that serve these clinics work tirelessly over many hours, most as volunteers. They all serve in an effort to save the babies of those who are on the verge of choosing to end their pregnancy. They offer continual support for the women while they are pregnant, and some teach abstinence or NFP and back up their teaching with loyalty and support. These places are an oasis in the desert that is the Culture of Death.

In one the greatest challenges of affirmation of my own reversion, and a clear sign to me of God’s will to begin the process of actually forming the St Anne Center, I have been asked by a few of these centers to become their Medical Director. A few months ago, I did not know some of these great places existed. They people that I have met share a common trait of spirit that is incredibly humbling to me. It was easy for me to say yes to assist them in any way I can.

Some have asked if this is a conflict of interest….I do not believe it to be so. None of the clinics are really within the catchment of the proposed center, so there is little, if any risk of self referral. And each, while similar, is very different in their charism. They are all special in their own way. I thank God for allowing me to see this up close, and will be involved for as long as He deems. It is just one tiny way that I can stand up for the Culture of Life, and a great preview of what God may allow in the Center to some soon.

Our Lady of Guadalupe, Pray for us!

 

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Why we do this


As we move towards the annual March for Life in Washington, it is important to realize that thought we artificially make up days like Respect Life Sunday and Respect Life month, that the preservation of Life is at the center of the Christian Life, and the natural law.

It is no mistake that the framers chose as it’s first inalienable right the right to Life. It is the central idea from which all other rights flow.

This video is created by a man of science, a mathematician, not speaking from the flowery tones of a pulpit or standing at a march. This is from the same web site that Melinda Gates completely misconstrued that Catholic doctrine. But that is fodder for another post

Just marvel at the absolutely beautiful film here, remembering that EVERY image of a baby you see can be legally aborted….that’s right, every one.

And then listen to how the film maker gushes about the complexity and attributes it to Divine intervention.

Our lady of Guadalupe, pray for us!

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Can Darwin realy be wrong?


There was an interesting Article in the New York Times this past Sunday. In high and low prose, the author laid out the case that the interactions between men and women may or may not be what has been thought about for millenia. Perhaps women and men are the same, and the reason that men are the “agressors” and that women are the “receivers” are based only on the surrounding culture. Change the cultural norms and women and men can be exactly the same.

Can we get any further away from the ideals of ladies and gentlemen? Ultimately, it leads to the continued erosion of the family model. How can children learn how to act with ethical means if there is no demonstration of a model of men and women as father and mother. This model has been present since Biblical times. Some of the most peaceful times in out history have been when this model has been fully accepted.

This is such a departure from the norm. No wonder there is a vital need for all to be exposed to the Theology of the Body.

This is not to say that men are better than women or that women are better than men. It is only to say that men and women are complementary pieces. And that the classical way in which men and women come together is a very important piece

St Gianna, pray for us

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same sex marriage in illinois


Viva Bishop Paprocki. He has released a beautiful letter which clearly elucidates the reasons why marriage is properly defined as one man and one woman. This issue is building blindly, like a snowball. A very vocal activist minority have laid siege at the statehouse in Springfield, spewing untruths that there is a new normal and that there is no opposition. Even GOP chairman Pat Brady has been confused by the din

If you live in Illinois or know people who do….there is no time to delay. Please ask them to contact their state representative. You can find it here

God Bless the USA

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